We need from citizens more willingness to learn how to listen and speak in helpful ways about our understanding or confusion about racism.
As I've researched this latest phase of our country's racism problem, I'm reminded about how much misunderstanding, miscommunication, and ignorance there appears to be about our racist history, and our ongoing discriminatory practices that are deeply enculturated in widespread behavior patterns and systems of our shared life together. Owning up to the need for these skills of active listening, charitable understanding, and a willingness to keep learning new perspectives, seems like a big hurdle for many people. Why are we, as a society, so complacent?
We need safe, yet truth-aiming, conversation spaces to talk about this confusion and misunderstanding. So many folks seem to be talking past each other, waiting their turn to speak (if they bother to wait at all)--instead of really trying to listen carefully and gain truthful understanding of perspectives different from their own. (Witness the "Gotcha Culture" of so much social media and our major broadcast news outlets. As long as this polarizing culture persists, it feeds on discord and suffocates genuine understanding or acknowledgments of the common ground we share.)
These shortcomings are apparent across party lines, across ethnic and generational boundaries, or across other social categories by which we define ourselves. I don't see genuine, lasting progress happening without these basic skills more widely displayed among Americans. It should be what we're known for, part and parcel of our American character. Fair mindedness. Compassionate. Reflective. Truth seeking. Kind. Fierce allies of justice, never power mongering or petty. ...In short, we have a lot of personal, as well as policy work, ahead of us. And we need to make such a skill-focused, cross-cultural, virtue-building learning project a main priority--in schools, in our political processes, informally, in our shabby national media, wherever it's needed (and it's needed everywhere).